I belong to a retired guy coffee group. We meet every other week at a different location (more on that in a moment).
Coffee group are interesting. They usually are retired men. Or perhaps I’m just not aware of women’s or mixed coffee groups.
I wonder why that is? My current theory is centered on where we find our community. For many of us, work was our primary social contact. Church was a secondary social group for me, but that was once or twice a week versus five times for work. Retiring means no longer working full time and no longer having that level of socializing.
Coffee groups are one way of opening up a new social circle, or at least continuing a prior one. Perhaps men need that more than women.
Side note regarding location. I’m a “Norm at Cheers” kind of guy. Ever since high school when I could drive myself to places (and a job to pay for it), I liked going to places enough that the staff knows who I am. Being a regular was nice. In high school, it was the waitresses and the occasional freebies. Now it is another social connection.
When we started this coffee group, my thought was to pick a place and always go there. But several of the others were more of the change it up and go to a whole bunch of different coffee shops opinion.
That was fine with me as long as I didn’t have to be involved in the decision of where we go.
It works well. And I really like our group.