I recently had someone damage something of mine in the course of using it. Not a big deal–stuff happens. I could just have easily done the same thing.
The problem was that I wasn’t told. I discovered the damage my own. Initially, I worried that I had done it. But then realized that it was someone else. I had to figure out what happened and that was frustrating.
The fact that I wasn’t told is the problem. Not the actual damage.
Stuff happens. We break things We forget an appointment. We make a bad decision. It happens to all of us.
What matters is what we do next.